I have a love/hate relationship with porn. On the love side, I consume it regularly. It’s my favorite masturbation accompaniment – I prefer it to fantasy infinitely. Well, that’s not quite right: fantasy plays a huge part in my life – it’s just not how I bring myself off when I’m rubbing my cock. That’s how I use porn. And not just when jerking off – also as a sort of idle leisure-time activity.
On the hate side? The vast majority of porn not only doesn’t arouse me – it actively turns me off. There’s almost no porn (other than, as I’ve written, X-Art, Amateur Allure, and the “OnlyAllSites” suite of web sites) that resonates for me, and, the way I’m wired, I’m constantly in touch with the portion of my reaction to anything (including/especially that which I find most satisfying) that’s disappointed. So herewith – a review of the porn I dislike least. A healthier person might manage to present this as a review of the porn I like most, but hey – that would be another dude’s blog.
What about IFM or Tony Comstock? I also liked Wicked's "Beautiful" and Pink and White Productions' Champion, in part because they had a story.
I mean, what you want does exist, and in quantity, but it's not visual — it's written erotica.
Also, this reminds me of a recent post on Love Sex and Marriage in which she muses about mens' sexual fantasies. I wonder if fewer men have fantasies with a strong narrative element. A lot of porn (and a lot of the male fantasies I've been privileged to hear) are powerful in part because of the ways they find to get around the rigors of courtship most straight men face. If a man feels like he has to make all the moves, what's better than a horny housewife who provides an unconventional "tip" to the pizza delivery boy? No dating, no risk of rejection. A lot of porn presents a world of sexual abundance in which it's much, much easier (or even unnecessary) to talk a woman into bed, and the man pushes for sex/women put the brakes on dynamic is either much reduced or absent.
Would like to read this entire post, but link led nowhere, help!
Go to my proper blog, http://mydissolutelife.com. This is inactive.